Carlos Valencia, 30

ANYWAYS FIRST OF ALL IM NOT CROSSING THE BORDER SO GET THAT STRAIGHT.IS THAT WHAT HE SAID TO COVER IT..HE DID HAVE A LIL HUMOR IN HIM.SECONDLY IM NOT GONNA PLAY THIS LIL KID GAMES ONLINE I KNOW WHAT WE HAD SO END OF STORY..BELIEVE IT OR NOT I COULD CARELESS.IM NOT TRIPPEN ON WHAT HE HAD GOING WITH AMIE & HES LIL GIRL"COOL"BUT LIKE HE ALWAYS SAID TO ME & HES"SON"NO ONE WOULD EVER REPLACE"US".& WITH THE TORRES FAM.I BEEN AROUND THEM FOR 12YEARS WE GOT ARE UPS N DOWNS BUT THEY LOVE MY SON TO DEATH SPECIALLY HES GRANDPARENTS & MY SON LOVES GOING WITH LOLA.YOU CANT TAKE THAT FROM HIM THATS HES FAMILY

I HAVE NO SORT OF JELOUSY TOWARDS YOU CAUSE 1ST OF ALL WHY SHOULD I..OK YOU & YOUR LIL GIRL WAS HES WORLD THATS FIND WITH ME.IM NOT TRYING TO TAKE THAT AWAY FROM YOU.I NEVER TRY COME BETWEEN YOU GUYS CAUSE WE HAD OUR OWN LIL BOND..I THINK YOUR MISSING THE PART EVERY TIME YOU THNK OF IT, MY SON ALWAYS BROUGHT US TOGETHER YOU COULD SAY TEMP OR WHATEVER COMMENT YOU HAVE.BUT IT IS WHAT IT IS NOW HES GONE & YOU GOT HES DAUGHTER & I GOT HES SON EVEN THOUGH MY SON IS HES FIRST BORN CHILD & WE GO WAY BACK & HAVE MORE HISTORY THEN YOU THATS JUST SOMETHING YOU GOTTA ACCEPT.WHATEVER YOU THINK OF ME IT SOUNDS LIKE A PERSONAL PROBLEM.& YOU HAD HIM BY YOUR SIDE.IM JUST GONNA BE THE BIGGER PERSON & LEAVE IT AS THAT

I WILL ALWAYS MISS YOU DAD AND EVERYBODY IN OUR FAMILY WANTS TO BE HIM AND HES A GOOD PLAYER AT BASKETBALL I KNOW THAT MY DAD WILL BE IN EVERYBODYS MEMORY

WHO EVER LYSA IS..FIRST OF ALL YOU DONT KNOW ME TO BE COMMENTING ABOUT ME LIKE THAT CAUSE WE HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU MAYBE AMIE IS YOUR SISTER OR FAMILY BUT STAY OUT OF IT WHEN IT COMES TO THIS HE WAS ONLY YOUR BRO IN LAW THATS ALL..HEY I RESPECT THAT,BUT HAVE SOME RESPECT & I DONT APPRECIATE YOU TALKING OF MY SON

Maybe you guys can cont. this on Jerry Springer or even better go back to school. Dont you want something better than to be a kids mom of a dead gangbanger? Just wondering..

FIRST OF ALL I DONT CARE WHAT YOU MAY THINK YOU HAD WITH CARLOS EVERYONE NEW HE HATED YOU!!! STOP ACTING LIKE YOU CARE.YOU NEVER LET HIM SEE HIS SON AND NOW YOU WANT TO PLAY THE PART.PLEASE GROW UP.EVERYONE IN THE TORRES FAMILY HATES YOU 2,YOU NEED TO OPEN YOUR EYES.YOU MAY SAY YOU HAD SOMETHING BUT I JUST DONT SEE HOW.TO BIG A BIGGER PERSON U NEED TO ACT LIKE IT.YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN THE BIGGER PERSON A LONE TIME AGO NOT NOW.WELL YOU GOT WHAT YOU WANT FOR CARLOS TO NEVER SEE HIS SON I HOPE YOUR HAPPY.YOUR JUST DRAMA AND WILL ALWAYS BE.THE ONE THING I CAN SAY IS THAT MY DAUGHTER DOES LOVE HER BROTHER AND I WILL NEVER KEEP HER FROM HIM.

OH AND AS FAR AS A BOND THERE WAS NEVER ONE SO STOP THE GAMES.IF YOUR GOING TO BE POSTING STUFF AT LEAST LEARN HOW TO SPELL!!!AND AS 4 TRYING TO TAKE SOMETHING FROM ANGEL NO THATS YOUR JOB AND YOU DO A PRETTY GOOD JOB OF IT.YOU ALWAYS PLAY LITTLE GAMES 4 THEM TO SEE HIM SO LIKE I SAID GROW UP.I'VE SAID THIS BEFORE MY DAUGHTER IS HIS WORLD AND WILL ALWAYS BE.WE HAD HIM DAY IN AND OUT SOMETHING YOU ALWAYS WISHED YOU HAD BUT COULDNT!!

all of a sudden you care about Carlos, you didn't care about him when you use to keep his son away from him because he didn't want to be with you. now stop acking like you care now that he gone and he can't tell you your full of it.

Ladies,

Both of you are showing your true colors by posting these negative things about each other. Do you realize that you are both fighting over a dead man? I mean he is dead...he played both of you and you allowed it and instead of being mad at him you are taking it out on each other...why? May be he loved both of you and may be he did not but one thing is clear he was getting what he wanted at of both of you and now that he is dead he is still what he wanted the both of you mad at each other while the no good two timer rest in a grave!! The both of you should grow up and keep the memory of your children in your minds before you post one more thing on this blog. Say and forget it, write it and regret it...both your children one day are going to read what you posted and they will even read your post name...Carlos' one and only??? really? "Hes" one baby mom? Again really? You know that just writing those two names doesn't make it true right?

YURI- Please do not judge their spelling or sentence structure- you spelled "dont" when it should be don't so don't judge

I DONT KNOW WHO JSP IS BUT MIND UR OWN BUSSINESS THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.YOU DONT EVEN KNOW THE SITUTION, SO YOU DNT HAVE ROOM TO TALK.REALLY I DONT CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK,BUT JUST TO LET YOU KNOW IM JUST RESPONDING TO WHAT IS BEEN SAID TO ME.

i want to respond to Sandra but ima respond to JSP first...who r u to say he played both of them first of all u aint nobody so keep ur stupid comments to urself, you dont know whats going in aside from all this internet stuff, so just mind ur own business... nosey!

JSP why don't you stay out of it. You don't know whats going on so, really again don't worry about it.

Sandra, I dont even know where to start with you, I know! Ill start by asking did u go to school, cuz man ur spelling is all paisa... its "fine" not "find" and its "his" not "hes"...Theres lesson # 1 for you! 2nd Carlos wasnt just "My Brother n Law", he was a great male figure to me. I have lived with him and Amie for 6 yrs, i have right to say whatever i want, i spent more time with him then u ever have and bcuz ur jealousy got the best of u, u tried to keep ur son from him, but its cool we got a relationship with ur son anyway, he calls my dad grandpa. we love Angel, and if u decide to keep him from his sister(Aleena) and the fam, that will b another 1 of ur bad decisions as a so called mother. Ur not worth anything, Carlos hated your from the bottom of his heart, if you only knew.

i remember one time me & my husband were chillen at our house down the street from his moms house, and we looked down the alley and saw Carlos coming down the alley on his bike,(thats when he didn't have a car) but anyways he was so mad, he didn't really say a word, then my husband asked,"a homie whats wrong." He said," i just got off the phone with Sandra and she won't let me see my son." He said, "its because i don't want to be with her she takes my son away. He was so sad but at the sometime he was mad. I felt so sorry for him there was nothing that me or my husband could do. He's not really a sad person, but that night all he wanted was to see his son or even talk to him. But someone got in the way as always!! And every other time he would come over he would say the same thing about Sandra. Carlos alway told my husband that his son was his world and he would be there for his when he was ALLOWED. Then when his daughter was born it was like a whole new world for him. My husband saw how happy he was and how he was able to be there for his new princess. He said to my husband that, "its werid being around he wasn't use to it but he LOVED it you could see it in his face.

Oh and JSP...my brother n law was not a "no good two timer", have some respect and shut ur mouth. He was with one is the PAST, which she cant seem to except, and he's with my sis now and forever, here on earth or not...

I love you Carlos...

I LUV MY FAMILY WE HAVE EACHOTHER BACK NO MATTER WHAT.ALLS I CAN SAY IS THAT CARLOS IS LAUGHING HIS ASS OFF AT SANDRA AND JSP FOR EVEN TRYING TO RUN THIRE MOUTH!!!BESIDES I KNOW THAT I HAVE THE BEST OF HIM!!

ALEENA AND I LOVE U AND MISS U VERY MUCH!!! WE HOPE YOURE RESTING NOW AND WATCHING OVER US.I LUV U DADDY!!!!
CARLOS,AMIE,ALEENA 4EVER!!!

Weezy,
My comment was not to be taken literal!
Had nothing to do w an actual education BUT was meant to the ignorance and wasted energy they were both spending over a dead banger..

Wow amazing what a lack of education and family values does to this world! I hope u guys help mold his children into becoming amazing citizens, and not get caught up in the life style that everyone stereotypes Latinos as being gang banger, theives, lazy and losers. I symphathize with the children in losing their father, but u as parents need to step up and show the children that there is more in this wonderful world than violence, and hatred. Good luck to you all. God bless the children.

My Darling Jonathan,
You are the love of my life and I can't believe you're gone. Our baby is due in May 2011. Please watch over and protect our baby and me. May you rest in peace.
All My Love,
Christine

Main Girl, who is "Jonathan"? These comments are for Carlos Valencia!!!

Let Csrlos rest in "PEACE"

Not a day goes by without me not thinking of you. We all miss you so much. Your smile, your laughter, your voice. Rest in peace little brother.

Happy Birthday little Brother. Miss not being able to call you or hear you voice. Love you Forever!!
Your Sis.

Happy BirtfDayy CARLOS!
Querido Carlos
Te Extrañamos en verdad haces de mucha falta en la Familia
te queremos y nunca te olvidaremos
R.I.P Carlos 8 julio 1989-12 febrero 2010.

dear Carlos
We miss you a lot you really lack in the Family

atte.Enrique,Arcelia,Jose Torres.
we love you and never forget you
Carlos R.I.P 1989-12 July 8 February 2010.

Atte.Enrique,Arcelia & Jose Torres

Its been two years and still cant believe carlos is gone but one thing i keep in my mind is how such a good father and babies daddy and homie he was. I knew carlos from the first time amie met him til the day he passed and hes a person i will never forget in my life!!! MISS YOU CARLOS!!!