Daniel Arviso, 19

Damn cuz theres not even a day i go by me ever not thinking of you.i pray for you every night making sure God is taking care of you and also the fact to make sure your watching over the family damn we sure do miss you. All the primos are trying to see each other togther every weekend.i know i wasnt always there but when you were aroound and i was down there.i use to always tell my mom i wanted to go to my primo
pelon's pad.i really hope i see you up there just to say whats upp primo were back again haha rest in peace cus
never forgotten daniel arviso

Gone to Heaven to be with his dad we loved you and hope the lowlive that took you suffers a slow painfull death
we did'nt know about your murder until 10/09/10 but pelon RIP
your grandma debbie .............

granson I just got the news tonite 10/9/10 that you went to heaven with your dad Mike may you both find peace together at last RIP Pelon remember that I have always loved from that day jesse told us about you
see you Angel may the double rainbows take me to you soon
grandma debbie

If some one in Danny's family in cali could e-mail me or call with some details and any up dates on the murder of My grandson danny "Pelon" it would be appericated the e-mail is debbie51@q.com or call 505-898-1287 and leave a message please May Danny find comfort in his Fathers Arms RIP PELON
grandma Debbie Herrera

dear my nephew sorry to hear your life got tooken from us so soon to know that i will never be able to see you again .that beautiful smile i will remember .forever i loved you so much and for that punk ass bitch who did this to you .will burn in hell.love always your auntie laura nunez

dear danny i know we didnt get a chance to get to know each either that well...but from the first and only time we met i thought you where pretty cool. i want you to know that we all miss and love you R.I.P LOVE YOU
-JESSICA NUNEZ

we cant believe its almost going to be 3 years no matter where we are in our lifes me and kayla will always love and miss you. i will never find another like you and kayla will never replace you. she always talks about you and prays for you. i will see you one day and what i sweet day that would be.
xoxoxoxoxoxox

just sitting here thinking about the last time I saw you and my heart is hurting that it was'nt the best of terms we parted I had just dealt with the murder of your Dad and I could'nt deal with all the drama. If you had only stayed longer maybe we could have worked on the issues that we talked about your Dad loved you and so did I along with this side of the family.All the haters wake up and don't kid yourself change the live styles and maybe the kids will have a chance if you do it may make a difference RIP spread your wings my Angel forever in your Fathers arms.

Debbie, you went three full years without knowing that your grandson was gone? That seems unfathomable to me. I'm sorry to hear that.

Grandma,

Really haters? Then you wonder why you have two dead relations? Grow up!!! Oh and while your at it have your other realatives grow up too....really?

mijo i dont beleve its been 3 years to me it feels like 3 days we miss u so much and love u we wish u were still here with us.we will get our justice soon remember your mom loves u mijo i'll see u soon.

Dannyboy,
As your Angelversary is here may you find comfort and peace in your fathers arms and that the world was a better place for having graced us with your presence and those eyelashes long like your dad's if anyone of you haters or the ones that doubt my love for my grandson it to bad I don't have "NO REGRETS" I am the Grandmother not the drunk MoM Or DAD or the Aunt that would"nt give you your car back so let the Haters hate and look in the mirror and judge for your self how you let him down don't blame me I shall pay my respect's at his grave site as I see fit. Peace out Haters!!!!!

As the third "Angelversary" is here I hope the Angels and you and your Dad found the peace that you could not find here on earth. The heavens above rejoice in your honor today and as we here in NM remember you as a wonderful child and confused youngman I underst and the pain you had as a child every time you had to move cause your mother had to have beer. I get it. But uless she learns from her loss your silblings are gonna go though the same and like you told me in 2007 last time I saw you she had gotten evicted again at least now you do'nt have to worry anymore rest in peace grandson "Fly above spread your wings freedom at last from the pain and worries Fly High RIP

His dad was murdered too? Whats the story on that?

angel i miss u alot u always cross my mind i dont think that will ever stop from happening. u were someone who i considered a great friend. i liked u so much from the day i first talked to u i felt like i knew u for so long. ill never forget chirping eachother for hours at at a time and losing sllep just to talk. i love u sooo much i wish i could tell u this in person but that cant happen cuz sumone decided to take ur life. u were a good man, ill never forget about u im lucky to have have ran into u the day that i met u. i wish i couldve helped u out with ur problems i truly felt for u but i was just a young girl with only my friendship to offer and a shoulder for u to lean on. i love u alot alot i hope one day to see u again.

damn i miss those dayz when we use to kick it..every weekend.. and of course cant forget about thursdays at potreros.not a day goes by that i dont think of you.. i miss you soo much words cant even explain!! i cherish all the memories we have. think bout em everyday. especially when us cuzins get together all we do is remember our times with you.we all love and miss you so much...ANOTHER DAY GOES BY THAT I WISH YOU WERE BY MY SIDE!

My Dearest Pelon!! Mijo im sorry your not hear to defend yourself against this lady that calls herself your grandma.we know you only have one! I know you wouldnt want me to respond to this bitter old lady that has so much guilt! she dont know what to do with herself!thats sad!lets be mature and leave it at that! please grow up!!arent you like 80yrs old!you were never a good mother or grand mother! i wont go further because i have respect for the rest of your family!Dont be mad because we had my nephews love and you didnt! thats your bad and you have to live with that guilt for the rest of your life! but like i said much respect for the rest of your family because THEY made my nephew feel loved! Later!from the so called hater!!!

these are kaylas words his daughter mommy is writing for her....i love you very much and god takes care of u. when i was little baby you use to feed me i dont want u to leave any where until i go with u to heaven. i go to church and pray for you. i wish when i got bigger u can still be here with me. i never want u to leave me cuz i love you daddy. i wish you could go to my ballet classes and hip hop n i wish you can take me to school and pick me up in ur favorite car. when i was little u used to take me to chuck e cheeses. i wish u could hold me in ur arms now that im 6 years old. i just wish u could be here with me and mommy love u daddy....

How old was the deceased when he had his daughter? He must have been 14 years old?

syscom3 my son was 16 when he had his daughter and 19 when he left us for a better place.

pleon rest in paradise ! now yu are in a better place with all the angels! & i remember when yu use to send me to la perla to get yu yur pan in the morning aha ! i miss those times ; well i love yu pelon & i miss yuu alot love yuur sister '' big bad china ''

Well Tia Donna all that I can really say to your comments is damn girl you must really be at a low point in your life so low you must blame me for Danny's death I live in another state how can you say I owed Danny anything I was only his Grand mother like it or not it is what is no more no less I am not bitter but have many Grandchildren to fill my life with to see daily and most of all "NO REGRETS" do you know what REGRET means? You must have many IF you had given Danny his car back instead of hold it for ransom he would'nt have been walking Now than as I said before "I HAVE NO REGRETS" or guilt but I know you have more than enough to go around.I hope that someday you can forgive yourself guilt can really bring you down ask Linda she must know anyway I must now close for now but remember this ask your self this is a hole and a pole the way to go?

For the record I am done with all the High school drama! If you play gangsta don't boo hoo about it it's part of the lifestyle those with the balls to admit don't complain it's all about "SMILE NOW CRY LATER"
"NO REGRETS"

the one who started all this high school drama is tryna say she's done with it? haha..you are the high school drama!! GROW UP AND GET OVER IT! you don't make any sense!!

IT was great to pay my respects at your gravesite the other day the sorry tia donna said i could,nt but i love a goal will be back again next year for your birthday with lots of ballons to send up to heaven to your and your Dad again as i did last week and i think some silly string too!
rip
grandma debbie

just sitting here looking at your memorial website remembering the happier days of your life when grandpa and I had you on the weekends and we would take you to riverside to play with little dave and the trips to chuckie cheese and how you would get all execited to go in grandpa's big truck and say pop some wheelies grandma as we went over the speed bumps as i look at your photos of your teen years you seem so sad and my heart is sad that you had such a messed up life with your so called mom not taking care of bussiness like a roof over your head for more than a minute but always had a beer in her hand so sad but that's life in her world so she such look in the mirrior and say to her self was that beer and men worth not providing a home for you so sad you had to be raised that way no wonder you rarely smiled in your photo's but i understand.
The truth hurts
grandma debbie RIP no worries now!!!!!

so called gramma do me a favor dont look at his memorial pictures any more u were never there 4 him and as for the weekends that u had him it was only once and he didnt even like going over there only to c his grampa not u so dont get happy u were always a bitch and always will be thats why marcel left ur fatass.so just stay where u are wilmington does not need u here and niether does my son.

Linda, You are a loser and all I can say is now Danny is with is heavenly Father and no longer worring about anything like food,shelter,etc.something you never provided cuz you cared more about the beer and the vato's.I know the truth did you forget I was around everyweekend for Danny so stop already with the blame game it's your fault so face it already.You lose!!!!
NO Shame in this game!!!
No ReGRETS!!!!

No wonder this family is broken, none of you know enough to keep the anger in check. Does it really matter who loved this person more? Who took care of him better? He still ended up dead! None of you could save him. None of you can change what is. He is dead no longer here and yet not one of you can let it go? From the looks of it none of you should have had the pleasure of loving his man. None of you deserve to have an out let that lets you hate one another on such a public blog. I'm sure Daniel of he could would tell each of you enough! What are you trying to show each other? At some point we are all going to met our maker and do you really want God or what ever you believe in to pull out these messages and ask you to defend them? Again what difference does it make who abused this man more as a child and who lead him down the wrong street when at the last moment of his life NOT one of you was around to hold his hand? I was there during my child's birth and 11 years latter when she died from a car accident (my car was hit by a drunk driver) to be there for her and walk her through her death was more remarkable for me and was such a gift that I was given. The last chance to say good bye for now. No one got to do that with Daniel and none of you got to be there for him in the end. So once again what does it matter who loved him more or who took better care of him, when he actually needed someone there for him NO one was? Really you shouldn't be hating on each other you should be asking Daniel for forgiveness.

dear s.j.p i know this isnt the place to be saying all this but this lady dosnt no anything couse she was never arround but i loved my son and always will and i did see my son his final hours couse i was there when he got shot i seen him on the ground.and held his hand the whole time.but anyway im done with all this so all i can say is rest in peace mijo mom loves you

So sad you ladies can't get over the past and learn from your mistakes. What happened is the worst a mother or grandmother should have to go through. I will pray that God will take all bitterness out of your hearts and replace it with love. All this name calling and blame will not bring you closer to your loved one. Act right and stop the hating.

May the Angeles in Heaven rejoice this Christmas as Father and Son dance with peace and happiness and the Joy of having knowen those the have departed no longer suffer but have enternal peace in heaven.
Mike I miss you !
Take comfort in the Heavenly Fathers Arms RIP "MIKE and Danny"

My mom debbie took good care of danny and was always getting him on the weekends for about the first five years of his life she made sure he had clothes, his first bike and for linda or donna to say otherwise is a big lie.we loved danny but life and it's changes causes moves and that is why my mom lost touch with him but on the other hand the one that should provide are the parents in this case that did'nt happen dad in jail and so call mom partying all the time so get off my Mom it not her fault
Laura

My grandma is good to all her grandkids she is a nice granny and we all love her and so stop smashing on her please
thx dj

Hello my grandma is so good to us grandkids y r u tring to make it seem like my grammy is mean she's not she was good to her grandson danny when he came here to New Mexico in 2007
but he kept asking for cars and stuff i heard him saying that his tia donna would'nt give him his car and he wanted my grammy to buy him a bently and rims which cost over a hundred thousand dollars and he never was happy about anything not the meals we ate out or about the pic's we as a family took at the memorial for my uncle mike all he would do is complain and be on the computer on my space or whatever so all of u that talk trash can f$$k o$$ word i am so happy i have my grammy she loves us all so much thank god for my grammy debbie

Irene,
it would do you good to know the facts before you say i am bitter put this in your pipe and smoke it i have no, nada, none, zero, zip,reason to be bitter i have fifteen grandchildren and one now in heaven with his dad so like i said before "NO REGRETS" but i am sure Linda has to many to count duh!
Merry Christmas loved ones in Cali

hey danny whats up primo its your cuzin laura just wanted to drop you these few lines down your way to say love you and miss you a hole lotyour even though went thru so many lost years not seeing you i stillloved you very much so many thing i wish i could change if only i could one would have kept in touch with you and your mom donna and the rest off the family sorry havent been on here for a min love you always your auntie laura nunez

angel i still think about u..i miss u alot friend.. sometimes i look at the sky and wonder where u are up there. i love u alot alot i hope to see u again one day ill never forget about u never ever. im thankful to have met u. im glad the last time we talked i let u knwo that i loved u and that even if we lose contact that somehow someway we'll always find eachother and u told me im the coolest girl u ever met :) ill never forget ur voice or ur goofy conversations or anything.. ANYTHING. i miss u angel im crying as i type this cause i just remembered a million memories out of nowhere :( i love u i know i said it a million times but it just doesnt feel like enough. i know this is just a message board but i hope u really know how i feel inside toward u. forever and ever in my heart <3

HAHA! everyone makes me laugh!! Pelon knows who was there for him and who really cared bout him. Any who, enough of this crap talk..tia dont let em get to you..we all know you love him, we all d0!! Pelon, not a day goes by that we dont think of you, we sit and chill with you every sunday, and every holiday!WE MISS YOU SOOO MUCH!!

Aqui estoy thinking about you carnalito
Every time you cross my mind tu saves que me aguito
I remember when we used to kick back and have a blast
It's hard to believe that was back in the past
I remember those times like it was yesterday
I knew if I was there and you were here it'd be the same way
We never thought we'd go through anything like this
Now we sit back and pray and say Rest In Peace
All the cuzins got your name tatted behind their neck
Some on their chest and back, arm just to show respect
You're always on our mind everyday and every night
We miss you carnal, things just ain't right!
Sometimes I sit at the pad in the living room
Checking out your pictures, listening to some oldies tunes
The ones you liked, the ones you used to bump
Confessing a Feeling, Try Me, and Let's Get It On
Takes me back to the days when you were here
Sometimes I close my eyes and I can hear you real clear
Rest In Peace in the heavens up above
Those you left behind from us got nothing but love
Simon carnal, that's how it is, of you being missed
Now all we have are the firme memories
We used to share in the days when you were here with us
Now another firme brother and a son is lost
I know we'll see each other cuz we'll be there some day
Rest In Peace carnal, for you we all pray!

Amen,
He sure did know WHO was there
and those that were'nt sad but so true! those that are feeling bad and guilty HA! HA!
Danny and I know the truth he told me EVERTHING!!! So Liz remember the good times and do something postive in his memory.He would love that. Remember Mike my son was his father our blood ran though his veins. Peace Out!!

I love and miss you very much danny there's not a day that goes by that i dont wish you could be here with me and kayla. Im sad because kayla will never have any memories of her own. I just wished for time... time for you and kayla to have fun together time so that kayla couldve made memories of her own with you. Time so that you could take her to skool. Time for her ballet recital. I just wished that we couldve had you longer just so kayla had something else to go by. Not just pictures and not just the stories i can tell her. People say things happen for a reason but i have yet to see the reason why god would take a little 3 year old baby girl her daddy away. im not bitter because im glad i have kayla a piece of you that stayed behind with me and your family. I LOVE YOU and that will always be forever.

My Dear Pelon!! i cant beleive another year has gone by mijo!! i miss you so so much! you would have been 23 on tuesday. but mijo we will still be singing happy birthday to you! i cherish all the memories i have of you! and i thank god for the 19 beautiful years he let us have you!! i wish we could of had more! but only god knows why it was time to take you up with the other angels!! me and cuate will always have something special to cherish your birthday cause now its our anniversary! and our beautiful neice kayla bean! she is so precious mijo!! thats having a little peice of you here!! we love you lon!! and we wont stop till we get justice!!! i promise!!! your tia donna!!! xoxoxoxoxo!!!

Just thinking of you this evening and wishing that your life had been better than it was but what was dealt to you was lemons and i hope that so called Linda can find a way to make lemonade with what's left with hers .will be going to place flowers soon
Grandma debbie

I miss u more and more everyday pelon my life isnt the same theirs times I wonder by myself jus thinking everything we use to do the nick names u use to call me the things u use to give me im gunna save everything and show Kayla what her daddy left me. Im really lucky to have had a brother like you, you know who was their for you and who wasn't I LOVE YOU!!!!
Sincerlly your little brother j.r aka bubba!!!

Youre always on my mind.. I never will forget u my friend. Miss u a lot n love u.. you came to my mind right now n I started to cry a little cuz I miss u and realize I cant see u but I know I would want me to smile. Please look down on me.. forever in my thoughts love you