California’s War Dead
Military deaths in Iraq and Afghanistan, 2001-Present
life in iraq is really boring, there is really not a whole lot that goes on out here, not that i am complaining i have a son now and i would like to at least see him before i die.
—Kyle Dayton, in an e-mail to a friend.
We had some sense of peace that the war was over, and he would be home. He made it through 21 combat missions, and it appears this was an accident.
—Chris Scolamieri, neighbor
I have no regrets. When you have children, you let them be free to choose whatever they want in life.... For me, I think I'll never be able to recover.
—Mario Tamayo, father
I tried to convince him otherwise, but I knew he was going to go, either then or when he turned 18. And I knew the journey was much better shared and spent together.
—Lisa West-Klopf, mother, on his decision to join Marines at 17
He wanted to do something for his country. He loved the military. He wanted to be a man, you know, like a soldier.
—David Sun, father
He was very thoughtful. He was trying to find a way to really make things better; you could tell that was really engrained in his personality. He wanted to contribute in some way. When he joined the Army, it gave him a real vision forward.
—Mark Rehling, former football coach
Joe was a wonderful person. He was a terrific son. He always had a friendly smile and was a great storyteller. We will miss him dearly.
—Charlie Nurre, father, about his only son
Pfc. Sanchez gave his life so that others may live. It is incredibly humbling to serve in the presence of such men.
—Eric Kurilla, lieutenant colonel
Stan was the kind of man who couldn't see anyone in need of help and not assist them
—Denise Grady, widow's aunt
He matured and grew so much as a person. We were so proud of him.
—Alma Murphy, mother
Total killed as of May 17, 2012:
699