He went to school and pursued a career, but he was always looking for something. He didn't feel fulfilled. Nothing made him feel completed until he decided to join the Army.
    — Maria Luisa Avneri, mother

    Garcia's mother said that after his death she felt so devastated she wondered if she could go on living. Then she received a message he had written the day before he was killed. 'I felt like he was embracing me,' she said. 'He told me, ‘I’m OK, I’m fine.’'
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    53 memories of Jair De Jesus Garcia

    He played great soccer!

    — bardgal
    August 4, 2008 at 9:41 p.m.

    que tengas buen viaje. te voy a extranar un chingo wey...
    yo se que estas mejor adonde quiera que vayas nomas guardame un lugar en el once titular de dios padre. RIP.

    — Shaggy
    August 5, 2008 at 8:58 a.m.

    He was a great person and will be sorely missed.

    — Erich
    August 5, 2008 at 10:13 a.m.

    hearts and prayers go out to Jair's family.

    he will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

    -lars

    — jeff
    August 5, 2008 at 10:39 a.m.

    R.I.P.

    You'll be truly missed by all. Best left foot in the game.

    — Jaime
    August 5, 2008 at 10:40 a.m.

    HEY COACH ....
    WE HAD A REALLY GOOD TIME WITH YOU...WE LIKED YOUR JOKES.....
    FCP #2

    — FULTON SOCCER TEAM
    August 5, 2008 at 12:47 p.m.

    I know how proud you were of being a soldier and protecting our freedom. I've loved you from the day you were born and will forever see your smiling face. As the other "De Jesus" I am proud to have known and loved you. You are now in Heaven with our Tita and Menito.

    Love you,
    Tia Jessie

    — The other De Jesus
    August 5, 2008 at 1:39 p.m.

    He was one of those honest "what you see is what you get" people who are too rare in this world. A real stand-up guy. What a great goalkeeper too! RIP.

    — Kevin
    August 5, 2008 at 6:45 p.m.

    A great soccer player, a greater human, and and a true icon.

    The word is a better place because he was in it.... if only briefly.

    LARS and the LA Galaxy will miss you, and so will I.

    The Rev.

    — Tommy Mack
    August 5, 2008 at 7:57 p.m.

    My Mother, Sister, and Brother thank everyone for your support in our time of need, and all of you who knew him i whant to say thank you for being his friend, you probably dont know me, i know we will meet, and if you are ever in Palm Beach Florida, my door will always be open, because a friend of my brother is a friend of mine.

    — Rick Garcia
    August 5, 2008 at 11:29 p.m.

    I am sad to loose Jair. He was always so sweet to my babies. Always there when we needed him. Never forgot about anyone...even if you forgot about him. Always making us laugh. A great soul for sure. I will miss you JR. Thank you for all the good memories at Kester. Never to be forgotten.

    — Sarahi
    August 6, 2008 at 12:25 a.m.

    A great dad and husband. Always there when we needed him. Never forgot about anyone...even if you forgot about him. Always making us laugh. A great soul for sure. I will miss you JR. Thank you for all the good memories at Kester. Never to be forgotten.

    — Sarahi
    August 6, 2008 at 12:49 a.m.

    A great dad and husband. A great friend...Always there when we needed him. Never forgot about anyone...even if you forgot about him. Always making us laugh. A great soul for sure. I will miss you JR. Thank you for all the good memories at Kester. Never to be forgotten.

    — Sarahi
    August 6, 2008 at 12:50 a.m.

    Garcia from the time he lived with me to the time he deployed with me, he always knew how to get me on the floor laughing, you were one of my best friends in the army R.I.P Brother.

    — Raymond Hessbrook
    August 6, 2008 at 1:03 a.m.

    I loved you with all my heart and soul and will miss you very much, thank you for all the great memories you left us.

    — tia Mari
    August 6, 2008 at 8:26 a.m.

    At a point in our lives, Jair was my little brother... It is hard to accept that such a loving person has to go this way...
    Jair, you will ALWAYS be in my heart, may you Rest In Peace little brother...

    — Ana C. Urena
    August 6, 2008 at 8:32 a.m.

    Jair was a very special person- my great memories of him is when he would pick up my mother(his grandmother)just like a rag doll. I will miss seeing him do that. We will all miss you very much.
    love your aunt Dora

    — Dora Cardenas
    August 6, 2008 at 9:06 a.m.

    Jair was a very very happy person. I will miss my cousins jokes. He always knew how to make our family laugh. I will also miss when he called me Selena(when I was younger I use to sing). I know that Jair and manuel we'll look over our family and continue to protect us. Love you Cousin Vanessa

    — Vanessa Yesenski
    August 6, 2008 at 11:21 a.m.

    Uncle Jair was and STILL is my favorite Uncle in the whole entire world. He taught me almost everything I know about Goal Keeping, I miss him so much. And I love him with all of my heart. Rest In Peace Uncle Jair.

    — Lilith Eve
    August 6, 2008 at 1:03 p.m.

    Jair, for a short time we were buddies, you supported me through some rough times! You made everyone laugh with your silly ways & your crazy impersonations will make me laugh forever when I think of you. I am lucky to have known you & know you will watch over Gabby & Noah everyday. Give Baby Matt lots of hugs & kisses. Thank you for our freedom Pvt Jair Garcia.

    — Apryll
    August 6, 2008 at 2:43 p.m.

    Even though we never met you, we've heard alot of good things about you. Now you have left a big emptiness in your love ones' hearts, but we are sure that you are in a better place. If you were a soldier who risked his life for his country, in heaven you will be an angel that will guide and protect the people you love.

    — Ramiro y Ana Alvarez
    August 6, 2008 at 4:26 p.m.

    IM AM TRULY SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPEND. I CAN RELATE TO THIS BEING IN THE MILITARY MYSELF, IM A LCPL IN THE MARINE CORPS,AND I TRULY HURT TO SEE ONE OF OUR OWN LOSE HIS LIFE IN SUCH A WAY. NOT ONLY WILL THE SAN FERNANDO VALLEY MISS A ONE OF A KIND SOLDIER,SO WILL THE COUNTRY HE SREVED.
    MAY HE REST IN PEACE.

    — DANNY RAMIREZ
    August 6, 2008 at 5:13 p.m.

    Assistant coach Jair was a person who always gave it his all and always encouraged others when things looked tough.He was there on our last game and supported us until the end! Stay strong coach Eddie!!!!He will be missed by everyone. In loving memory
    Jair de jesus Garcia

    — Fulton Soccer Team
    August 6, 2008 at 10:20 p.m.

    Our prayers are with the family of Pvt. Jair de Jesus Garcia My son Pvt 1st Class Raymond D. Hessbrook was stationed and deployed along with Pvt . Garcia. We will miss those goodtimes we shared at our home and all the laughter and goofyness he brought into our lives.

    — Eliska Hessbrook
    August 7, 2008 at 9:32 a.m.

    Damn how life has its turns...Jair just made everybody in the warehouse laugh...good jokes! We wont morne your passing, we will celebreate your life!

    — Hugo Martinez
    August 7, 2008 at 9:01 p.m.

    Our Prayers are with the Family of Jair. Jair may you rest in Peace along the side of the Divine God.

    — Jose Macias and Family
    August 7, 2008 at 9:19 p.m.

    OUR PRAYERS GO OUT TO JAIRS FAMILY,I HAD THE GREAT HONOR OF MEETING JAIR AS HE WAS GOING THROUGH HIS PROCESS FOR THE UNITED STATES ARMY. HE HAD A WAY OF MAKING PEOPLE FEEL SO COMFORTABLE THAT YOU WOULD JUST FOR GET YOU HAD JUST MET. WE BECAME BATTLE BUDDYS AND MADE IT THROUGH BOOT CAMP TOGETHER I'VE LOST MY BEST FRIEND AND A BROTHER

    — EZEKIEL CASTANEDA JAIRS BATTLE BUDDY
    August 9, 2008 at 1:25 p.m.

    JR, thank you for the laughs and for the being the remarkable human being that you were. Most of use try to live life to the fullest, but you were one of the rare to live life to inspire. You have made such on impact on so many lives, we thank you for that gift. Watch over my girl Gabby, and continue to guide Noah from heaven. Till we meet again Jair...

    — April & Herbert Zarco
    August 10, 2008 at 9:17 p.m.

    wassss sup! jair you will be missed....never forgotten!
    u were a hero before you ever joined the army! u were already all you could be .
    a beautiful soul with life and love to share...

    — lesley -
    August 11, 2008 at 5:59 p.m.

    jair siempre te llevare en mi corazon porque fuistes y seguiras siendo una persona especial tanto para mi como para mi esposo porque eso eres un angel que llego a mi hogar y dejastes buenos recuerdos especialmente a mis hijos te recordaremos como eras alegre y una persona de buen corazon el tiempo que estuvistes a nuestro lado llenastes nuestros corazones de amor y armonia por eso ocupas un lugar especial en nuestros corazones tato,angelito,carlos y yo te llevaremos en nuestros corazones siempre descanse en paz

    — grenda nunez
    August 11, 2008 at 10:16 p.m.

    a real man he always knew how to help and brought alot of joy to me and my family we love you jair

    r.i.p

    — carlos martinez
    August 11, 2008 at 10:24 p.m.

    jair te recordare siempre y nunca voy a olvidar cuando me llevastes al chucky cheese con my brother i love you te seguire recordando

    — angelito nunez
    August 11, 2008 at 10:28 p.m.

    I extend my deepest sympathies and heartfelt condolences to Jair's family. My prayers are with all of you.

    God Bless.

    — Elia Ortega
    August 13, 2008 at 3:30 p.m.

    YOU BELONG TO MY HEART (Elvis Presley)

    You belong to my heart now and forever
    We were there beneath the stars while a million guitars
    Played our love song
    When they said I love you
    Every beat of my heart said it too

    Do you remember
    Darling you'll hear that song
    And you'll always belong to my heart

    — To GABY and JAIR
    August 14, 2008 at 1:20 a.m.

    Dear Family, I'm so sorry for your loss. It's hard to find words that will comfort you at this time. God's word has always helped me and I pray these words will comfort you.
    To everyone there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die; A time to plant, and a time to pluck what is planted; A time to kill , and a time to heal; A time to breakdown, and a time to build up; A time to weep, and a time to laught; A time to mourn, and a time to dance (Ecclesiastes 3: 1-4)
    God Bless you and your family.

    — Rachel Perez, Laguna Niguel California
    August 25, 2008 at 10:26 a.m.

    i loved him alot he gave me alot like took me places bought me suff and gave me money and when i found out what happen i just busted i love you jair R.I.P

    — joseph
    August 31, 2008 at 9:55 a.m.

    Jair, there is not a day that you're still in my memories. Or better yet, in our family's memory. Every time I get memories of you, I just let go a deep sigh. Still missing you...we'll see each other again...

    — Jaime Cornejo
    September 29, 2008 at 11:51 a.m.

    You were my rock brother. I never would have made it through basic training without you. You are one of only a few that I call brother and more importantly my best friend. You were there for me mentally and spirtually. You lead me back to the lord. I love you my brother and will never forget you! I'll see you again at the big formation in the sky I'm sure of it. Thank you for everything my friend....

    — PFC Danny Williford
    October 5, 2008 at 1:27 p.m.

    Wow, I think around this time last year was the last time I saw you. Jair, there still isn't a day that something doesn't remind of you. This weekend, we'll be play B&G, and I'll have you in my thoughts. I miss you man! See you one day.

    — Jaime Cornejo
    December 5, 2008 at 11:41 a.m.

    I went to basic training with jair. he was in my platoon, and was one of the only guys who took his job seriously. jair was a natural leader who helped other guys. I remember him actually having guys break down and cry on his shoulder. He helped everyone. we had agreat connection being two of the older guys in the platoon. we talked about life, and laughed alot. I am completely heartbroken at his loss. My prayers go out to his family and child. He wanted to come to fort irwin with me. I wish he would have. I will see him again someday in paradise. Miss you bro.

    — army pv2 kap sharpe
    December 30, 2008 at 11:33 p.m.

    I had the privilege of knowing this soldier not only did he take care of his fellow battles but he lived his life.. This guy would always make you crack up .. He was a good man I never regret meeting him and the goodtimes we had..

    Well meet at the fiddlers green my friend.

    Rip brother

    — Shawn doran
    March 9, 2009 at 2:33 p.m.

    Wow...It's been more than a year already. I miss you man! We'll meet again...

    RIP

    — Jaime Cornejo
    August 15, 2009 at 11:24 p.m.

    Hey Jair. Still missing you bro! I got a Dutch Lion Tattoo on my arm now. You're part of me, and always will be. We'll see each other again. And play soccer again!

    RIP

    — Jaime Cornejo
    October 12, 2009 at 9:58 p.m.

    Always in our hearts. thank you for making me feel at home with the LARS degenerates. Thank you for taking care of us from up there!

    — cesar
    October 14, 2009 at 10:54 a.m.

    Happy Birthday...

    Till We Meet Again...

    R.I.P.

    — Jaime Cornejo
    March 3, 2010 at 9:13 a.m.

    Jair was a very special person. He always knew how to make everyone laugh and he enjoyed that. He knew exactly how to light up the room with his presence. At times he led me to believe that he had life all figured out because of the way he lived his life. Jair will be forever missed.

    — Jovanne Diaz
    March 4, 2010 at midnight

    I miss you.

    — Jaime Cornejo
    May 31, 2010 at 9:40 p.m.

    Miss ya, Buddy. Drank a Corona, thought of you. Two years already. I still wear your name on my wrist every day. I was proud to have served with you, and to have called you a friend. I'll see you again some day, in a more peaceful place.

    — S. S.
    July 22, 2010 at 2:03 p.m.

    The first day I met you, you came into the room wearing an afro wig, spitting all sorts of game about UCLA football. I'll never forget that day. You made everyone in the room crack up! I thought about you on this Veterans Day...your sacrafice is one I will never forget. You are thought about and will never be forgotten.

    Thank You, enjoy that awesome soccer game in the sky!

    — Heather
    November 11, 2010 at 4:58 p.m.

    We all miss you.

    — Jaime Cornejo
    August 1, 2011 at 8:03 a.m.

    Happy Birthday. We continue to miss and love you.

    — Jaime Cornejo
    March 3, 2012 at 1:19 p.m.

    I was searching for those personalities with the name Jair. Picture of this impressive and handsome man in full US army attire just appealed me. When I clicked on the picture I got to read the sacrifice of his life in the war in Afghanistan. It was a sad and untimely demise. I pray in Jesus name that may the mighty Lord God continue to take care of his son and family and rest his soul in peace.

    — william wordsworth
    November 15, 2012 at 3:02 a.m.

    Happy Birthday, Jair! I miss you. And I'm sure many of us miss you as well. Till we see each other again!

    — Jaime Cornejo
    March 3, 2013 at 7:45 p.m.

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