It seems like we're fighting for no reason. But as a father, my son made me proud. He made everyone proud because he was doing what he wanted to do.
    — Milton Monzon Sr., father

    Monzon didn't tell his parents that he had been wounded by shrapnel during his first tour of duty. It was something they discovered when they saw the scars on his chest.
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    19 memories of Milton M. Monzon Jr.

    Jr. was not only my cousin, but he was my best friend. He had such a precious soul and a humongous heart. He was amazing. He still is. I still miss him. I love you Jr.

    — Melanie Medina
    May 27, 2008 at 6:01 p.m.

    I still miss my nephew dearly; he will always be in my heart. I still remember how he used to give me the biggest teddy bear hugs and loved to spend Christmas with us. I also remember how he used to play with his cousins as a little boy. I love him very much.

    — Sylvia Solis
    May 29, 2008 at 10:46 p.m.

    I remember Milton from high school..sweet guy..very humble..may God almighty hold you in all his glory. See you soon

    — Jennifer
    December 4, 2008 at 3:24 p.m.

    Milton, was my brother's high school friend. He was such a friendly individual. He will always be remembered in our hearts.

    — Yanci
    April 18, 2009 at 3:01 p.m.

    Jr, was my nephew I remembered when he played with a little solders I miss him. He will live in my heart forever

    — Chris Monzon
    April 22, 2009 at 9:02 p.m.

    Jr was my best friend growing up he was sweet fun and just like a brother we used to fight all the time like brother and sister, but he would always be there for me. I miss him ever day I have his picture at my desk and work and I am very proud to say that is my best friend when ever some one asks who he is.

    — Amanda Stringer
    May 2, 2009 at 3:37 p.m.

    I went to high school with Milton. He was a really friendly guy and one of the first to talk to me when I was scared in a new school. We had a lot of good times at shows, school and the park. Ill never forget walking with him and the rest of the gang as the sun went down. I wake up every morning to his picture on my wall only to find the heartache will never go away... RIP Sergeant

    — Diana Argueta
    May 23, 2009 at 2:25 a.m.

    We miss our nephew so much, he was so happy when he came to visit, and we were more happy to see him, and spend time together. I miss the bear hugs, he was my teddy bear. We think of him everyday and he is in our hearts for the rest of our lives, OUR HERO, OUR NEPHEW... his 26th birthday just past and we sent him a prayer. We love you Jay Are for ever<3333

    — Mike and Ruth Medina
    October 16, 2009 at 5:17 p.m.

    Sometimes when I think about my cousin, I feel like he's not really gone. I feel like someone made a mistake when determining whether he was dead or not. Maybe he just lost his dog-tag while trying to help a wounded soldier. (He considered all soldiers as his "brothers.") I believe that one day, he'll come back home alive.
    Other times, I think that he's hiding somewhere - in Paris or New York - & in 20 years, he'll come out of hiding and tell us how he had to leave because he needed to be free for a while.

    Either way, I know that I'm going to see him soon.

    I just want him to know that it's okay to come out of hiding.

    <3

    — Melanie Medina
    October 16, 2009 at 5:42 p.m.

    Dear Melanie Medina, your comment made me cry even as I write now. I hope and pray that your wish comes true, yes may Milton come out of his hiding one day soon. I also pray God to take care of him wherever he is. Take heart my dear.

    Otano Augustine (Nigeria)

    — otano augustine
    October 16, 2009 at 11:14 p.m.

    I met Milton in high school. To this day, he will always have place in my heart. He never turned anyone away when they needed help. I will never forget his smile when I would see him in the hallways of L.A. High. I can still picture his face as he would stand on the football field watching the band rehearse. I thank you Milton, for serving our country and I know someday we will meet again.

    — Patty J.
    March 15, 2010 at 7:03 p.m.

    I met Milton or as I known him, Sgt Monzon before I joined the Army, while he was on leave from Iraq the first time. I will remember the laughs that we had and the time that we shared out with our friends on Kenwood and 29th. I am now a Sergeant myself and will always keep him in my memories, May the angels of the all mighty guide you swiftly to rest my Brother In Arms. One Team, One Fight HOOOAAHH!

    — SGT Wiley, Luis.
    July 14, 2010 at 3 p.m.

    I knew Milton back in High School. He was always polite and generous to everyone...I remember he was home on leave (first deployment, i believe), we (milton, sean and myself) decided to go to Santa Monica. We walked. I remember he looked back at a family playing on the sands and the words that he spoke still haunt me til this day. "That's why I do it."

    — SPC Rivera, Marco
    August 2, 2010 at 1:31 a.m.

    I remember meeting Monzon outside the 3/3 CAV motorpool. I believe we were both trying to catch a small break before going back to work. It just so happened we shared the same agenda at the same time. We shared two more similarities in that we were both Chicanos serving in the Army, and we were both from LA. I would see him in passing and shoot him a "wassup" or a "que onda" he returned the gestures. the summer of '05 in South Baghdad was very tough on our Squadron. It got alot tougher when my fellow chicano, and Angelino went to be with GOD. You passed to soon bro, but I feel that you made the sacrifice you did because you were unselfish and sharing. Thanks Bro, Gabe Centeno

    — Gabe Centeno
    December 6, 2010 at 10:30 a.m.

    I did not know him personally, but he went to same school as I, and I was supporting 3/3 ACR at that same time. I send prayers to the family. He will be my comrade and homie forever. God bless my brother in arms. And I love what SGT Rivera remembers of him and why he joined, to serve the people of LA just so we can have freedom.

    — Mark Johnson
    January 28, 2011 at 7:28 a.m.

    Jr. was my little cousin, but I always considered him as a little brother. We used to have so much fun playing hide and seek in the dark and tag. As we got older we enjoyed just hanging out. He was such a kind loving person. I miss him and think about him everyday. He is in my heart and in my prayers every night. I hope wherever he is he's happy and at peace. He lost his life to protect ours and for that I will always be grateful. I love you Jr. always and forever!

    — Wendy Menendez
    May 30, 2011 at 2:35 p.m.

    Jr was not only my cousin but my ultimate hero. I will forever cherish that last Christmas we had as a family, he will always be in my heart my prayers and in my dreams. His legacy will forever live on, I will always love you with all my heart Jr<3

    — Rebecca Velarde
    June 2, 2011 at 11:27 p.m.

    Jr will be always in my heart and memories. I will never forget the last big hug he gave me the last time he came to visit. Everytime i want to hug him i close my eyes and think about that last hug. He was a good person and he loved to be with his family. I miss him all the time. It's been 6 years without him and i still can't believe that he's gone.

    — CLAUDIA C. DIAZ
    July 30, 2011 at 1:37 p.m.

    Jay Are was my awesome nephew, I miss him & think of him everyday probably until the day I die. He loved spending time w his fam & friends. I remember many precious moments but especially the time when he visited us one summer vac at the mountains my son Tony & him were playing outside & they were full of mud, then they washed each other w the waterhose! He loved to spend time w us & we enjoyed every min of it. We love him so MUCH!!!! I miss his bear hugs and his soft lip kisses that he gave us everytime & all the time. Thank U Jay Are for being w us everyday & for taking care of us from above, I LOVE YOU! we will see You again one day my baby!

    — Ruth Mata Medina
    July 30, 2011 at 4:59 p.m.

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