Robert J. Cottle, 45

Robert was a wonderful friend and will be missed on the dance floor.

He and my boyfriend went through the LAPD police academy together 19 years ago. He and a few other officers would come to our tiny apartment and spend countless hours studying together after spending the day running the LAPD obstacle course. They all lost so much weight and were exhausted. At that time, I had my son Michael who was an infant and Cottle was always so nice and playful with him. He used to come over for dinner and would always talk about the ladies. He was a good friend to my boyfriend, who is very angry right now, understandably. I know he will be missed and I appreciate his kind spirit. Goodbye Cottle, Godspeed

RJ Metro Man, SWAT Operator, Devil Dawg, rest in peace, Semper Fi. 9-90

Sergeant Major Cottle was a highly respected Marine and Police Officer who honorably served his Country, Corps and community ...he will be greatly missed. Semper Fi, Rob.

I will miss you, brother !

Robert was a good friend and neighbor in our high school years. He will be missed. My thoughts go out to his family.

My parents are the Godparents of Robert. He lived across the street in Whittier and was at our home at much as his own. He was always a sweet, caring boy. He was born on my parents anniversary and was special to them from that moment. My mother saw to his care all the time and I remember visiting one time and seeing him asleep next to my Dad. Now at 92, my Dad had to send me the horrible news. How hurt he and my Mom are because they loved him so much.

Our family is devastated. I do not believe he should have been asked to serve again. He finally took a bride and had a new baby but he went off to serve and do his duty once again. Let it be known that he was the last of the Cottles in his family line. There are no more boys.

I saw him last when I visited my parents a couple of years back and he had dropped by to see me. He was full of duty and expressed his love of his job in the LAPD. I was so happy to see what a fine man he had become. I also thought how good it was that he stayed connected to his roots and my parents and showed so much respect and love.

I am so sorry that his little daughter will have no memories of him. She will be missing a very good thing as will her Mom. Anyone who knew him will be worse off for the loss.

There is a lot more to say but the essence is that his death is a tragic event and that we will all miss him.

God Bless his soul and his family.

John

R.J was a great LAPD/SWAT operator.He will be dearly missed. Dirty 30's forever. J

RJ was a man's man, a cop's cop, and will be sorely missed. On behalf of all your brothers in PA, RIP......

My Condolences and prayers for the Cottle family. I didn't know Mr. Cottle but I do appreciate his selfless service to our country.
God Bless,

RIP My brother in blue. Thank you for your service. You will be be greatly missed.
Semper Fi

His sacrifices were the greatest and so were his accomplishments as a man, leader, SWAT officer, Sergeant Major in the Marines, and friend. R.J. was a inspiration and none are finer than he...

A Marine and METRO Man - A true "Silent Warrior" indeed.....Semper Fi brother!
Eddie Ortiz

I didn't know Sgt. Major Cottle but want to express my appreciation for his service to his nation. My deep condolences to his family and friends.

RJ was a great cop, superb firearms trainer and fun guy to be around. You will be missed, my friend.

Chris Hansen
Lieutenant
LAPD

YOUR BROTHER IS "TWICE" A HERO WHO BOTH
PROTECT US AS A POLICE OFFICER AND AS
A MARINE!!!

MAY THE "YOUTH" OF THIS NATION REMEMBER
THE SACRIFICES OF OUR VETERANS AND LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICERS KEEPING OUR NATION SAFE.

Rest in Peace Devil Dog! God bless your family! Fellow Law and Devil Dog..

RJ had an impact on everyone who met him. We played hockey together and every time we jumped the boards for our shift he would yell "Let's go get some" with that huge grin and great laugh. He would sometimes make us do pushups when we messed up a play. It was immediately less fun when he was off the ice. Since he was deployed poeple would always ask "when is RJ coming back?". He was a special individual. The most fitting comment out of a somber locker room this morning was "he was high on life, and it was infectious". RJ, you will be missed but not forgotten.

Your service to this world is complete, Rest in peace brother.

My thoughts and prayers goes out to the family...

I am still in shock at RJ's passing and am heartbroken for his family. I met him years ago through my then-boyfriend, who was one of his closest friends. He had a wicked sense of humor, and I will never forget the twinkle in his eyes and how he tried to not laugh out loud before he got to the punchline of a colorful joke! And who else would name their dog Recon Von Gunner? He was always full of energy and was friendly to everyone he met.
This is a great loss for our nation and for the LAPD, and especially for anyone who knew him and witnessed his commitment to upholding his duty and honor as a police officer and a Marine. The greatest tragedy is that his daughter will grow up without him, but I know that he will always watch over her in spirit. My deepest condolences go out to his family, and he and they will always be in my prayers.

Thank you Sir for making our world a better place. It is men like you that give me peace of mind knowing that people still care :)

God Bless you and your family and friends.

Thank you Cottle for all the years you allowed us to be of service to you at Nick's Cafe in downtown LA. We will miss your always smiling face. We also thank you for your brave service to our country, the LAPD, City of Los Angeles and the USMC.
This is one last hug to you Cottle.xoxo

I’ve known RJ since 1986 as a Marine, a Cop, Great Guy and Great Friend, he loved his work and loved his Family, he will be missed. My deepest Condolences to his Family,

Wayne. FFL

We used to sit in the bar at Ridgeline Country Club, in Orange Park Acres, CA with the men after they finished playing tennis on Wednesday nights. I was bar-tending and Robert would come and entertain the men and me with his stories - some stories were funny, some interesting, some awe inspiring and some not appropriate to repeat, but always entertaining.

Robert, I am sure you are entertaining those in heaven just as you did on earth. We will miss you. God Bless you and your family.

With a heavy heart we offer our deepest condolences to the family and friends of this brave Marine. We will be forever grateful for his service and sacrifice.
From this Marine family…Semper Fi and may you rest in peace.

I first met RJ at Perris Valley Skydiving where we both learned to skydive and jumped together frequently.

A really great guy. I feel bad I lost touch with him over the years.

Blue Skies RJ.

To the family and friends of Sergeant Major Robert J. Cottle.

We send our most sincere sympathy for your greatest sacrifice. Robert not only lived up to the Corp values of “Honor, Courage and Commitment” for his unit and this country, but also for
Himself and to his family and to this community as a police officer.

Albert Einstein once said “The world is a dangerous place to live; not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it.”

We are truly thankful of those who return home safe and are praying all those who are still serving around the world. We take comfort in thinking that our fallen heroes are now in the company of all those who have gone before them. Sgt. Major Robert Cottle, we salute you for your commitment. For Robert’s family, we pray God will give you the courage to be strong for each other. We shall live to honor our fallen heroes, for they did “something about it”.

With hearts filled with sorrow for your loss.

Semper Fidelis.

Ray & Linda
A Proud 2 Blue Star Veteran Marine Family

God Bless you Robert and family,
Thank you dearly for serving and protecting our country and my family you will never be forgotten.

Our freedom is paid with the blood of pariots like Sgt. Maj. Cottle. May God bless his soul. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.

Semper Fi

Semper Fi, Sergeant Major...

I had the privilege of traveling to Washington D.C. with RJ and other LAPD officers to the National Police Memorial Services in 2008. RJ arranged for us to see the Marine Corps Silent Drill Team at the, “Oldest Post.” I remembered in that short time we were in Washington how proud he was of being a Marine, and being a member of the LAPD. I really did not know him before the trip, but I am thankful I was able to get to know him during that short time. He will be sorely missed. God bless you and your family during this difficult time. You are a true American HERO!

I knew Robert as such a kind man with a mind like a steel trap. He was truly mentally strong, yet as nice as they come. I'll never forget his intense blue eyes, how he was really interested in other people's lives, and his dedication to his job and country. He was so intelligent, so fun, and a complete life lover. He did everything with gusto. He lived, he really lived. I will never forget him.

" Sir, your focused dedication and commitment will serve to all the people you have touched as a reminder of how you lived your life. You, like many that have gone before you are a TRUE HERO. We are all proud of you and will miss you but never forget you. Please keep an eye on your co-pilot and keep him with you always. May you both now rest in Eternal peace".

condolences to r.j.'s family. your loss is felt in pennsylvania, where r.j. trained many s.w.a.t. officers. rest in peace, brother.

I had the privilege of meeting Officer Cottle for the first time last year during IDC School. During one of the breaks we had, I remember him pulling me aside and giving me tips on how to be a better instructor. The fact that I had only met him for the first time and he not knowing who I was, showed me he had great compassion and character. I hold the SWAT Team in high regard and for Officer Cottle to take the time to assist me in my struggles with instructing, just reaffirms how lucky we were to have a great person like him on LAPD's SWAT Team. He definitely left a lasting impression on me not only as an LAPD officer, but as a person as well. When I got word of his death, I felt like I had known Officer Cottle my entire life and was very saddened. I have never lost a close relative or family member, but when I do, I know now what that feeling will feel like. As I write this memory about him now, I am angered on how we could lose such a great person. God knows this world needs better people like Officer Cottle. God bless the Cottle Family. Rest in peace Sir.

MY PARENTS AND ROBERT'S PARENT'S WERE FRIENDS.I USED TO BABYSIT ROBERT.HE USED TO PLAY WITH MY BROTHER BEN.EVEN AS A CHILD HE WAS FULL OF LIFE.WHEN HE SPOKE OF THE POLICE DEPARTMENT HIS FACE WOULD LIGHT UP.HE LOVED TO TELL HIS STORIES.MY HEART IS HEAVY WITH HIS DEATH.I BELIEVE HIS SPIRT LIVES ON AND THAT HE WILL WATCH OVER HIS FRIENDS AND FAMILY.

RJ, you are a role model to me and to all Americans alike, Your dedication to God, Country, and your fellow officers will never leave me. You are the one that reminded me to be the best at what I do, to be sincere when you speak, and to stand by your beliefs.

your vision lives through me and your fellow officers

R.J. "Vaya con Dios"

I met Robert about 18 years ago when we served together at LAPD Pacific Division. Although we never worked in a black and white together, whenever Robert and I saw each other over the years I was always greeted by name and with a big smile. Robert was always happy and always shared a his smile and a friendly joke. I was so proud of the officer you became and the Marine you always were. Semper Fi Marine.

Rest In Peace SGT MAJ. it was an honor to have served with you.

I met RJ several years ago while he was instructing my SWAT school in Mass. He was the type of cop made me want to be an better operator. The world is a lot less safer place with him not in it.

Rest in peace from your east coast brothers.

RJ was more than just a great guy. He was a true and caring friend. He was a great SWAT instructor, and just a great person. When my Mother passed away in 2004 he sent me and email.I think this sums up what he was all about.

"Rember, what doesn't kill us , only makes us stronger!! Only warriors like ourselves understand that mentality... Times does heal most, if not all".

I will miss you very much. From all you friends. Columbia-Montour SWAT Team, PA.

Ted Stout , Millville PA.

I considered Robert as a uncle to me, friend and brother in arms. I have spent the last 6 years sharing birthdays of the family, thanksgivings, easters and christmas together. He also let me stay at his house when I was having trouble at home. Family get togethers will never be the same without Robert. I know Robert will be on my side watching over me for the next 7 months in baghdad,Iraq. I will miss you Robert.
Rest in peace, Uncle

I am so sorry for your loss. My son is there as well and have been stung by the recent deaths of 2 of his friends. May God be with you at this time of your need.

"All give some, some give all"

My condolences to all the friends and family. We were fellow devil dogs back in the 80's with ANGLICO. My fellow "Devil Dog" you have made the ultimate sacrifice for all of us to live our life in freedom. May you live in peace forever as you take your seat at the very special table of fallen warriors. God bless.

RJ was my friend. A true American hero and a great man. 'nuff said. R.I.P. my friend! You will be missed.

I met RJ Sept 10, 1990, the first day of the LAPD Police Academy. A skinny bowlegged guy with a deep voice and the heart of a giant, By noon the first day, we were looking at him as a leader. RJ and Karen Ruth became my closest friends in the Academy. Before we could graduate, I was injured and had to attend their graduation on crutches, watching from the audience. Months later, when it was my turn to graduate, RJ and Karen were there for me. You couldn't help liking the guy, his infectious laugh, zest for life, skills as a cop, he had it all. Always going to shooting schools, adventures here and there, he was always in motion. I kidded him about country western dancing, calling him "Mr Whirlie Twirlie." He is not a hero for the way he died, he was a hero for the way he lived. Guys like RJ don't come along often and his loss leaves a hole that can not be filled. I grieve for his family, his wife and his daughter. RJ, it was great knowing you, brother....you will be missed.

R.J. Cottle is the true definition of Honor, Courage and Duty. God bless you R.J. Semper Fi.

you are a hero. you've served your country well, believe me when i say that you left something great behind in this world, you will be remembered. you are loved and missed by many. rest in peace.

Devil Dawg:

You always hated the camera. I Thank God that I was able to get some photographs of You during our times together at various honky tonks.

This has been the worst week for me since Randi Simmons was kiled (Sigh). However, the "Sting" was eased a bit by the fact that I have received comments from around-the-world, which attests to the fact that You shall NOT be forgotten..

Semper Fi,
"Major Pain"

RJ,

You'll be greatly missed by the SWAT community you served so honorably. God bless you and your family. Our heart felt prayers go out to your police and marine families. You make us all proud. God bless the United States! Semper Fi!!

I know this loss is terribly felt by his family. However and let it be known, it is felt as strongly in the Marine Corps and LAPD. A great man who will be hard to replace. He is in God's hands now and I am sure the Lord is pleased to have him in heaven. God Bless And Semper Fi

Many memories of Robert! Amazing that he was able to rise up from so many obstacles, health, homelife, etc. and develop into such an extraordinary person!

Many memories of Robert! Amazing that he was able to rise up and overcome problems of health, homelife, etc. and develop into such an extraordinary person!

SGT MAJ...
He was a great man, and defenetly a GREAT marine. i had the pleasure of being one of his marines...
he would ALWAYS encourage us, and motivate us. he would always make us laugh yet made us understand what he wanted us to do. when he spoke everybody LISTENED...
oorah Sgt Maj, thank you for everything. and to his family, my sincere condolecense to you guys, i had the pleasure of meeting him for few years, i CAN'T imagine how you guys feel, knowing him all your life... he was a GREAT man, and he will NEVER be forgotten...

Shakespeare said it best.

ROSS
Your son, my lord, has paid a soldier's debt:
He only lived but till he was a man;
The which no sooner had his prowess confirm'd
In the unshrinking station where he fought, 1st Sgt D
But like a man he died.
SIWARD
Then he is dead?
ROSS
Ay, and brought off the field: your cause of sorrow
Must not be measured by his worth, for then
It hath no end.

The Marine Corps is a family & when we lose any member of our family we all feel the lost. The Sgt Maj & the LCpl will never be for gotten Semper Fi my brothers.

During the first gulf war Sgt Maj Cottle was my Platoon Sgt. I remember him going down to LAPD for his job interview. He was very excited and wanted to be a member of the department. He was an awesome leader and will be truly missed by all. Thanks Sgt. Cottle you are a true HERO. RIP

We are going to miss you brother.Rest in Peace.

A true police officer and soldier will put the needs of others before their own. RJ did this on a daily basis. He was the epitome of law enforcement and of the military. When its time to leave this earth, I hope I can be 1/2 the man RJ was. All though he will be gone, his spirit will remain in all of us that knew him. Rest in peace brother....

Knew Cottle from the Corp. One of the best Marines I ever met. RIP Marine.

RJ was not only a brother and great friend, but he was a true mentor in the SWAT world. RJ's pride and passion for SWAT, the Marine Corp and our great country always shined through him. I offer my prayers and condolences to RJ's family and our brothers in LA and in the Marine Corp. I know I was truly blessed by having RJ in my life as an excellent instructor and friend. I know our team is much better and operates safer because of you. I guarantee we will carry your passion on!

Godspeed my friend and I'll see you on the other side.

Sgt. Allen L. Breach, Columbia-Montour SWAT - PA

I did not get a chance to meet Robert, yet he was married to one of my best friend's from childhood. I am sorry for your loss, Emily and Kaila. I wish there was something that I could say or do to make everything normal again. Thank you for your dedication, Robert, and for fighting so hard for our country. May you rest in eternal peace.

A true American hero. A terrible loss for the United States, and the city of Los Angeles.

JR/LAPD #34991

I am overwhelmed to read all the loving comments in memory of my beloved brother, Robert. As his sister I had the privilege of knowing him for the last 45 years. He and I did not have the closest brother and sister relationship as young children. However, as adults we grew much closer. I have so many fond memories of him: making forts and playing with Lincoln Logs as kids, our family trip to England and Scotland to meet our relatives in 1971 and in 1987, traveling through Spain when he was stationed in Munich, Germany, harmonizing together on road trips, skiing in Lake Tahoe and he coercing me to try the black diamond runs even though I was barely an intermediate skier Ugh!, reminiscing about all the havoc he created during his days as a student at Leffingwell Elementary as he attended my son's first day of kindergarten, proudly showing me all the home improvements he made on his "dream house", spending time with him, his wife and his newborn baby girl, Kaila trying to show him the ropes of new parenthood, drinking a glass of good red wine beside his fire ring while taking in the beautiful view from his backyard talking about his life and his upcoming deployment and my last memory of him... giving him a new, personally inscribed Bible, telling him how much he meant to me and praying with him for his safe return to us all. Well, he did not return to us in the physical sense but I still feel him with us. I know he is watching over all of us from heaven. I feel him most just before I dose off to sleep at night and when I gaze in the big, blue eyes of his baby girl. Robert often said to me, "Bonnie, always watch your back." I will bro, I promise. I am so proud of the US Marine, the LAPD SWAT Officer, the grandson, the son, the brother, the brother-in-law, the uncle, the friend, the husband, the father and the fine man my brother was. We are all better people having known him. I am happy to know he is now safely in the arms of the Lord. Robert James Cottle, we will all miss you but our memories of you will live on forever. Rest in eternal peace, my dear brother. Your tour of duty has been satisfied. Vaya con Dios, mi hermanito.
Until we meet again in Heaven,
Your Sister/Seester
Bonnie

I did business recently with Robert. He was a complete gentleman and treated my staff with warmth and kindness. What a class act.

I am extremely saddened at the lose of such an oustanding man. I served with Rob at 3rd ANGLICO. Whenever I had a minute I would go to the paraloft so I could talk with Rob and listen to one of his stories, he had a million of em! We went on an overseas op and hung out together when we had liberty, and had a great time. I would like to extend my condolences to his family and friends. Robs lose will leave a huge hole, for he has touched so many lives in such a positve way.
Semper Fi my friend, say hi to Frank Brown for me.
Jack

I remember the day he told me he joined the Marines when we were in high school, and how proud he was to do so. During his first years in the Marines we kept in touch, and I have many memories that I will always treasure as one of his friends. We lost touch as our lives changed and we grew up, but I will remember him always as someone I loved and cared about. My prayers and thoughts are for his family to get through this tragedy.

Diane Corea

RJ-
You left an unforgetable impression on all the members of our team. That Austrailian Leap from the rail of that bridge in Berwick was INSANE! The shooting drills at the range. The Line Dancing at the bar. Spending the week of 9/11 in Blackwater was eye opening. The way you kept us motivated after watching the towers going down, we won't forget. I'm glad I kept in touch with you. You do keep me motivated bro and have incorporated most of your ideology in my training ways.

The man upstair must have great plans for you up there to have taken you so soon. Love ya Bro... You will be greatly missed down here.

God Bless You and Your Family,

Got to meet alot of you guys when we were out for Randy's funeral in 08. Sorry for your loss fellas.

Served on Embassy duty with Rob in Djibouti, never a dull moment when he was around. he was great guy and he will be missed

Was my 1stsgt in 03 oif great example of a man,and marine we lost one of the good guys rip

An awesome father, one of the best in police tactics, a mentor, a "Warrior" and a Marine of Marines. You will be missed RJ!

Semper Fidelis,

Roberto M.V. Obong
Police Chief
VAPD

RJ made the world more safe by his work and his teachings, what a loss. It sounds like everyone observed the same thing. God bless his family.
DLS. VTPD, NJ.

My fellow operator, Diver , B2V runner, Sniper. IM really going to miss you Brother.

I had the opportunity to know Robert while his father and my mother (Joan Klein) Were married. I will remember the laughter we shared and the Sunday night dinners. God Bless you Robert and your family. I will miss you Bro.

Rob was that best friend that you meet later in life. It is with regret that I did not know him earlier in life.

I served as his 1stSgt and was privileged to call him a friend and seek his advice routinely.

I spoke to him last, just before this deployment. We talked about getting together for a long overdue beer and lies about exploits in the Corps. I was last with him while he reenlisted at 25,000 feet before a free-fall jump into Hawaii.
Rob was a modern warrior who stood a watch with the resolve of our founding fathers. He was a Patriot of Freedom!

I am at a loss to find out about his death so late but am no more relieved.

I, as you, have lost a Brother-in-arms. He was a leader to his men, a trusted peer to his friends and a vicious adversary to his enemies.

America has lost one of its true great sons. He will be remembered and revered for what he stood for and died for.
To his family I can only offer my sincerest condolences at the bereavement that must surely be yours having paid so costly a price on the principle belief in freedom.

God’s Speed Rob, you are in Heaven at your post continuing to serve.
Semper Fidelis, SgtMaj B. Sends…..

Robert, you fun loving crazy guy... we will miss you each and every holiday... Thank you for keeping us safe.

Crystal

Our prayers and thoughts are with your family. You paid a costly price for our freedom. May your wife and daughter know how grateful we are. Rest in Peace.

On behalf of the entire LAPD Bomb Squad family, we offer our sincere condolences...RJ you were truely a fine and dedicated Marine, and an outstanding SWAT operator...thank you for bringing us some pretty good laughs through the years...heavens streets will now be guarded by another fine US Marine...Semper Fi my brother!!

RJ, I miss your laughter, leadership and friendship. 0630 pickup followed by 1000 sow. Friends in work, hockey and a fine glass of wine. My heart aches at your absence. The world will not be the same without your presence. RIP fellow Marine. We will keep watch on your family while you guard the gates of heaven. Semper Fi until we meet again...

You are a true HERO, who lived life to its fullest and sacrificed all. You will be missed! God bless you and the Cottle family. See you in heaven brother!

RIP Brother RJ! God bless you and your family. You will always be in our hearts and our memories forever. Never forget the fallen hero! Semper Fi!

Robert was the finest person anyone could know. I just wish I had a chance to say good bye because I had not seen Robert (RJ) in a few years. I met RJ in the academy...I think he was 9/90 because I was 10/90. His locker was right behind mine. We then worked at Pacific together then hung out at Borderline in Thousand Oaks. He liked to to all the country dance stuff. There was something very special about him. He was so humble, and so kind. He did'nt have a mean bone in his body. He was a fantastic person and he will be deeply missed. Thanks for all the fond memories Robert. You are a true Patriot and it was an honor to know you... Rest in peace.

I didn't have the pleasure to know Robert, nevertheless, my heart sorrows for his family.

His daughter will grow up knowing how her Daddy was a HERO and paid the ultimate sacarfic for the country and people that he loved.

I pray that our Lord comforts his family & friends with His promises of peace, strength and love in the scriptures.

In Christ's Perfect Love, Denise

I met Robert in 1990. His energy, big smile and love of life were infectious from the start. He was everything that everyone here has written about him, and then some.

I did not know much about his work. But if you knew Robert, you knew about his dedication to the Marines & the Police Department …especially his position with the LAPD Swat Team. He was so proud when he got there and rightly so.

With all that Robert had on his plate, he was a busy man. So, constant contact was not always an option. But when you did see him again, it was as if never a day passed. You'd start right where you left off, the same camaraderie, the same joy, the same connection, the same fond feelings & attachment. He had a way of keeping an incredible bond with those he chose to let into his life.

I remember many conversations over the years of his desire to meet that one special lady. Then he met Emily. There was a sparkle of hope when we talked that she might be "the one". Eventually they did marry. They had their daughter Kaila just before his deployment, and you could see the excitement as they both started into that passage of “Parenthood”. It was short lived for Robert, but I'm glad Robert lived to experience that kind of joy. My heart breaks & I'm crushed that Emily & Kaila will have to continue on without him.

I was fortunate to attend his going away, deployment party and be a part of his send off.. Among the many friends & loved ones, I was hoping & praying he would return safe & sound back to those who loved him. I never really thought Robert would not return. He was so skilled, so well trained, I thought he was invincible. But this war shows no discrimination for age or ability....so Robert & his family joined the ranks of the many fallen soldiers & other families who sacrificed their loved ones. The pain is indescribable……The loss so devastating. He was a certainly a hero, but the families of the fallen are heroes as well. The courage they must face now is unimaginable.

I took Robert to Sedona, AZ to hike and share the beauty of that amazing place. He was a lover of life and I knew he’d relish the beauty surrounding us. We talked about the beautiful places we might want to settle in our old age. It is now obvious that Robert was called to retirement early. His precious soul was sent to the ultimate beauty of heaven. I pray that I might enjoy his company again someday.

As determined an individual as Robert was, I know he will always be there in spirit surrounding those whose lives he touched. My Friend “Roberto” will always remain such an inspiration.

It was sad to see the news today concerning your death in Afghanistan during Operation Enduring Freedom.
Thank you friend for serving us both in the L.A.P.D. and the U.S. Marine Corps.

I served with you in 3rd ANGLICO many years ago... I remember you and will not forget you!

Semper Fidelis, Brother Marine

Chris Merrylees

I MET ROBERT BUYING HIS HOME FROM HIM IN GRANADA HILLS IN 11-06..........YOU COULD JUST TELL HE WAS A VERY SPECIAL PERSON BY THE WAY HE CONDUCTED HIMSELF,I GOT TO SEE ALL THE PICTURES OF HIM WITH ALL HIS MARINE PALS,AND LAPD PALS HANGING UP ON THE WALLS OF HIS HOME...HE WAS A VERY HUMBLE,PROUD,AND VERY NICE PERSON.. I AM GLAD THAT I GOT TO KNOW SUCH A FINE YOUNG MAN...R.I.P. BROTHER

d hears even the smallest voice and our voices join others in your grief. We send our prayers to the Lord for you and our thoughts are with you.

Much love, Patti and John

Robert, you were like a brother to me. Thanks for watching my back. A true hero. Rest in peace my friend.

I met RJ in the late 90s while serving with 4th Force in Hawaii. We were both reserve Gunnys and Police Officers and immediately hit it off.I cannot think of anyone I'd rather have behind me or in front of me "when going thru the door".

RJ and I were both single back then and use to talk about meeting that "special girl". Shortly after that I did and he was so happy for me. I'm so glad he finally met his and know she must be a very special woman to have landed him.

I got a little grin while when I read that RJ named his little girl Kalia as I have a little one named Malia.

Kalia will have no shortage of people to remind her of what a truly special person her Father was! He was a man that truly made a difference in this world.

I read in one of these posts that it was wrong that RJ was over in Afganistan. Anyone who knew RJ would agree that there was no place he would have rather been and was doing what he loved to do. God Bless and Semper Fi Brother

Epitome of the Marine. SgtMaj Cottle's personality, leadership, and devotion to his country has influenced my life indefinitely. Thank you, SgtMaj. Semper Fidelis.

It was an honor to be at the airbase and see Sgt. Major Robert Cottle U.S.M.C. come home.

GOD BLESS SGT. MAJOR COTTLE AND ALL OUR SERVICE PERSONNEL!

It was an honor to have served with Sgt Maj (then 1st Sgt) Robert Cottle in Iraq when his unit augmented 1st Recon Bn. He was and will always be at the front of the stack- whether with Delta Pltn, LAPD Metro or the Corps. May your daughter grow up with the knowledge that her father gave more than most men do in 100 lifetimes.

Semper Fi Warrior,
Former Capt USMC, Special Agent

Robert, as busy as he was, helped out a fellow military member, although not I was not a Marine :) and watched my dogs for me on several occasions. He was a great friend. Yes, Robert those bad dogs still don't listen to me either.
Thank you for everything,
Stace

Robert was our next door neighbor growing up. Boy did he keep my dad busy with all his antics. They talked about the marines often as my dad was one.
I'm sure my dad was there to meet you in your heavenly home. Most of all, we are all proud and grateful of the man you became.
Bonnie, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

I love America! I love these men and women!!!!

Robert and I met at the entry level PFQ in order to qualify for the Police Academy in 1989. Of course he dusted me on the run and OB course. Reminder to me not to judge a book by its cover.

We were classmates in Class 9/90 and hit it off as immediate friends. He loved to laugh and it was infectious.

When we graduated, we roomed together for over five years. First in Hermosa Beach then Granada Hills.

We were partners the first two nights of the L.A. Riots, and we made Metro on the same day. We later worked together in several SWAT/K9 deployments, and remained freinds thruout.

The most unique individual I have ever met. Truly one of a kind.

Robert always pushed me and those around him not to settle. He made the most of his God given abilities and never backed away from overcoming the next challenge.

He loved being a soldier and loved being a SWAT Officer. He was the ultimate professional at both.

My family and I will truly miss Robert.

Steve C.

I was deeply saddened to hear of SgtMaj Cottle's loss. R.J. Cottle was my first sergeant when I was the company commander at D Co., 4th Recon Bn in Albuquerque, NM. The relationship we shared as a CO/1stSgt was truly a special one, and I was privileged to count him as a true confidant, advisor, and friend. My deepest condolences go out to his wife and daughter - he was a truly outstanding man, Marine, and law enforcement officer and will be missed by all who knew him. RJ, those black-n-tan's will never taste the same. RIP and S/F,

LtCol Andrew Roberto

I was one of RJ's dance partners. He was as full of life and high jinks on the dance floor as he was off it. You could always tell RJ loved being a Marine and a police officer.

Mixed with the sadness at his loss is a great deal of joy at the life he lived. I can only imagine he is taking all that zest right on with him into the next "assignment."

Best wishes to his family, friends and brothers in arms.

Amie

My family first met Robert in the 1990s during the L.A. Riots. We owned a business in that was robbed and valdalized during the riots and Robert was there to assist. I was so young at the time, but I remember vividly the zest for life in his blue eyes and his passion for the LAPD & the USMC. My family got to know him more after the riots and unfortunately over the years lost contact with him. I had some relatives who served with him in the LAPD & would always hear bits of what Robert was up to now and then. Robert was the finest officer the world has seen and I am deeply saddened by his death.

I was once told that a Marine never leaves his post, he just sits by his post and waits. RJ is undoubtedly waiting by his post in Heaven.

Robert truly lived to serve the people of Los Angeles & the people of America. He truly is a hero and I hope the fact that he was with a newfound close friend when he entered Heaven's gates brings some comfort to his friends & family whom my heart so deeply aches for.

I salute you, Sgt. Maj. You are MY hero and it is because of you that I will be applying for the JAG Corps this upcoming year once I begin law school (something I'd ALWAYS wanted to do & had been contemplating but wasn't sure I was wo-"man" enough to do). Semper Fidelis, RJ! God bless you.

Love,
Shelley

Devil Dawg:

I finally went back to Montana's for the first time since You deployed to Afghanistan. It was amazing how many Honky Tonkers made it a point of mentioning You to me.

Today (04/11/2010), I made it a point to say “Thank You” to the Hollywood Celebrity Tour Guide Announcer, who stops His Tour Bus, so that Tourists could Pause To Pay Respect at the Sunset Boulevard (West Hollywood) Billboard Dedicated To Your Memory.

Anyone wishing to see Related photographs, visit my Facebook Sites:

Facebook | In Memory of "The LAPD SWAT Fallen"

Facebook | MCRD - San Diego & Marine Corps Base Camp Pendleton, CA

Semper Fi,
"Major Pain"

I'm so sadden by the news I heard yesterday. I'm an ice hockey referee at the ice hockey rink in ontario. I only new him as sarg. But, he was the nicest person on the team. And to add he's a great ice hockey player. I don't even think in the ten years I refed. his team I ever had to give him a penalty.. If I ever had a problem with someone on his team, I would have gone to him and he got his players in line. I am very much gonna miss refereeing sarg.

Paul

I met Robert in September 1990. We were members of the LAPD Academy Class of 9-90. He has always been a natural leader, but without the arrogance. He showed this by helping us not-so-military-inclined get in tune with our new way of academy life. He had a huge heart and was always full of life, making up nick-names for everyone. Jim Kaiser, Robert and I were called the 3-Muskateers and quickly developed a bond. Robert would take us to the country bars and try to get my 2 left feet going in the right direction. He would always say, "Just listen to the music!" Well, my dear friend, I now say to you, "Listen to the music." We are all singing your praise!! You have left a lasting impression on all who were blessed to have known you, and you will be greatly missed.

I STILL CAN'T BELIEVE YOU'RE GONE SGTMAJ., THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR WISDOM YOU SHARED WITH ME AS A MARINE AND PEACE OFFICER. I WILL MISS YOU SGTMAJ., SEMPER FIDELIS...

I know his death hit the platoon hard and they feel a huge loss. To his wife, my heart aches for you.

I knew Robert for many years while growing up in Whittier. While I haven't seen him in years, how amazing and wonderful to read about the fine man he became...son, husband, father, friend, SWAT officer, Marine.
I am proud to have known him and even more proud of the sacrifice he made for our country and the safety of the world.
I will be forever grateful to Robert for the service he performed in his roles as an officer and as a Marine. I know he has a special place in heaven right now. I pray that time and only the happiest of memories will give peace and comfort to his family.
My heart is broken and I am sure I speak for many when I say that he will NEVER be forgotten and will ALWAYS be missed.

Lovingly, Pam

As a former military member, I feel sad everytime any individual of the armed services makes the ultimate sacrifice.
As a former "California Marine" I feel even a greater loss, whenever I read or hear about the loss of a United States Marine.
As with law enforcement and the brotherhood of the firefighter, the USMC has a bond amongst its' own that is shared only by "The Few. The Proud".
Although I neither knew or served with the SGTMAJ, the memories posted of him show him to be a hero, a leader and a friend to countless.
To his family, may GOD bless you and comfort you.
To SGTMAJ. Cottle, Thank you for the man that you were, the Marine that you became, and the sacrifice that you made.
To Marines past, present and future, SEMPER FIDELIS.

we'll miss you.

I live in San Clemente, our hearts bleed for you. His body will rest in Arlington but his heart and soul will live forever in the hearts and souls of all of the lives he has touched. I am in complete awe of this man, what an amazing person to have dedicated his entire life to serving all of us. He left this Earth as he lived, a Hero. RIP brave sir.

Never met this brother but can only wish I had! I thank you from the bottum of my heart and soul....daily as I look into a childs eyes. You brother and the brothers around you are the guardians to our freedom in the streets of America and future lands far away.

May God Bless and guide you and your family throughout their lives.

Carlos Garcia~Garica
Siemper Fidelis
(a Marine&L.A.P Officer at heart)

never knew this man, but my greatest symphony goes out to him and his family. god bless him, and the people serving our country.

why the different funeral to all the heroes, just because is LAPD?

Bob and I first met in 2001 at a 1stSgt conference for Division, and were friends ever since. Bob was a great American, and Honorable Marine, a committed SWAT operator, and loving husband and father. All that knew him lost a little something today. My thoughts and prayers to his family and friends.

My heart goes out to Fi Fi and her daughter and their families at this time of loss of a husband, father,son and brother. I have never met a husband and wife more dedicated to the military and love for each other. To hear of the loss of a love one is never easy.
You have such happy memories of Robert his positive side of life. The life he chose and loved, God Bless .You Helen McCarty

RJ was a CAN/AM hockey teammate. He taught me about loyalty, service, and camaraderie. RJ will be missed though never forgotten. - - - Mike Fisher, Denver, CO.

Working Pacific one night i got a call from a citz who wanted to thank me for the respect that was being show for the flag by the officer who was taking it down.
I went up to the roof and looked over to see Cottle who had gone to the locker room and changed into his class a uniform and hat performing a one man flag ceremony.
Later when i mentioned the call i had gotten,his response was clear.
"Well Sarge i have lost a lot of friends for that flag" "i need to show my respect."

Thanks Cottle you were great, i too will miss your smile. Whenever i see a flag ceremony i will remember you.

Dance on my friend.

Denny 17297

My deepest and most sincere condolences to the Cottle family, LAPD and USMC for their loss. I received the word of Rob's passing on a Houston radio station. As Rob's Det. Commander from 88-89 in Munich, Germany; Rob's smile and laugh was infectious. In Munich, many of the children in the american community were attracted to Rob and gave Rob the nickname "Superman." In 94' Rob was gracious to open his apartment to my family while at the World Cup. Although deeply saddend, we are honored to have known such an outstanding warrior and person. In gods hands, rest in peace my brother. As your spirit lives, you will truly be missed.

Tom Little (USMC 77-92) Houston TX

The news of Robert Cottle's death caught my attention as I have a brother in Illinois named Robert Cottle and my grandfather was named Robert Bruce Cottle. I had an uncle who left home at 16 and his name was Robert Bruce Cottle. Please let me know if your family was anyway a part of our family tree. We are in Illinois and the family lived in Ludlow, Illinois. My condolences to your family---all our men are very brave to protect our country and we should all remember them and their families forever. Sue

I heard about RJ on an NPR radio broadcast played in Melbourne, Australia today and felt compelled to write and offer my condolences to the family.He sounded like a helluva guy.Thank you for laying down your life for our country too, as well as your own.
RIP

I would like to thank all of the folks for the condolances expressed to me and my family over the loss of my son Robert James Cottle. The cooperation of the USMC and LAPD has truly been outstanding in helping us through this very difficult time. Robert wanted to be buried at Arlington National Cemetary in Virginia which we did on April 16, 2010, with a full military and civilian honors. In addition to his
many decorations he was just awarded tthe "Bronze Star" with a "V" for Valor aand the "Purple Heart". He lived "life" to the "fullest" whether serving as a Marine or as a LAPD SWAT Officier. I especially want to thank Lance Corporal Rick Centanni's father Jon as we have both been grieving together. Rick Centanni was the fellow marine that was killed with my son on March 24, 2010.
Semper Fi

I just saw the billboard on Sunset today and was shocked and saddened. I met RJ on the dance floor and I told him he looked familiar. It was because he looked like Ed Cavanaugh on the NBC show "Ed". He laughed because it was one of his favorite shows.

I told a friend of mine tonight that Jack Bauer could learn a few things from Robert. Robert was confident, funny and always lived "in the moment".

"Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends". John 15:13 This refers primarily to Jesus, but I often think of our military when I read this scripture. My prayers go out to his family.

Semper Fi Sergeant Major. Fair winds and following seas...

i am sorry and hope you liked the rose. You deserved it.

Semper Fi & rest in peace my brother!! You served your country and community with honor. I heard about RJ after his funeral. My condolences to his family, friends, his brothers and sisters at LAPD and in the USMC. Devil Dawg's forever!!

"Killer Koz"

I was able to do business with Robert and although my interaction with him was for a brief period of a few months I was most impressed by his passion and his accomplishments. The first thing I saw when I met him was a picture of him swinging from a helicopter with weaponry in hand . When I inquired about it he responded with such zeal. He is a most impressive and brave individual. On this Memorial Day, you are remembered with respect, fondness and reverence.

My life is better for having had the privilege of knowing you and being your friend. The countless cigars on the back deck, endless foot patrols, the bumpy LAV rides back to the COP--"Hold on boys", 10 mile runs, three years of drill weekends, beers at your house, the conversations--stories, and your sage advice. You have given me more than I can ever repay.

I served with RJ '83-'86 with H&S Co. 1st Battalion, 3rd Marines. I am very saddened to learn of his death. RJ was always the life of the party. I don't think I can ever remember a time that he didn't have a smile on his face. My prayers go out to his family. Rest in Peace my brother. You are a True American Hero !!

I was a member of the old guard during this great american's funeral. i requested to be one of the riders on caisson because i knew he was from california, and a member of LAPD. An organization i would like to become a part of upon my return to California. The Funeral turnout was spectacular. I loved seeing the support of my hometown's Police Dept.
best wishes.

I knew Robert a long time ago in a Land far way. We served together in 1BN 3D MAR in Hawaii. He was a great guy to be around, never without a smile. Rest in peace brother. Doc.
Formerly-
HM3 M.Wahoff
BAS 1/3
Kaneohe,HI

Robert purchased a house in Granada Hills across the street from our family. Robert was immediately drawn to our family and often visited with us and our frequent church get together's of family and friends. We moved from Granada Hillls and I have often wanted to talk with Robert but have never been able to catch up with him.
Robert told me he had a sister and if she reads this post I hope she will email me as I would like to express to her what Robert meant to me and my family.
Bill Van Antwerp
Hamilton, MT

It's been a year since your loss. I just wanted your family to know that you are not forgotten. I hope the sting and pain of your loss has subsided a bit for I know that it will never completely go away. Your family is often in my thoughts and prayers. Again my deepest condolences on your loss.
Jack Winther, M/Sgt
Logan, Ia

I will never forget March 24th. One year's passing has not waned the sense of loss.

RJ was an outstanding guy, a dedicated Marine and LAPD officer, and a great teammate. His energy, humor, and enthusiasm are sorely missed.

This nation is fortunate to produce sons of RJ's caliber.

This day always sticks in my mind as my son turned four a year ago today and it was a good day, but he was too young to understand the sacrifices made by noble men like SgtMaj. Cottle and how it affected me and so many others. It was a day of mixed emotion being a Marine myself who lives so close to a man who gave so much of himself with the LAPD and the Marines. I am sure his family and friends know how much he meant to all of us and his Corps & country....
Semper Fi
&
God Bless

May I first start off by expressing my condolences to you and your family on Sergeant Major Robert J Cottle. I am deeply saddend by your loss. Even though I never met your loved one, I have a great admiration for what he was there to accomplish and all that he sacrificed. On behalf of Calvary Chapel Santa Fe Springs and myself we would like to extend a personal invite to our "Day to Honor"community festival where we come together as a community in the city of Santa Fe Springs and honor our Fallen Hero and their families. This community event would take place May 29th,2011. I will continue to ask the Lord to strengthen you and your family daily as you go through this difficult time.

I don't smoke cigars so I kept the one you gave me at the castle a few days before you died. While unpacking my seabags in my garage a day or two after returning from Afghansitan, the glass container holding the cigar broke.

It must have taken me a week to smoke the entire cigar. It was hard due to fighting back the tears.

RJ:

We have just completed our second National Police Week in DC without your physical presence. However you were there in spirit and in spoken word. You should be proud of yourself for the new tradition you started with our brothers and sisters in the Chicago PD. They miss you too. Yours and young Rick's sacrifice has brought the true meaning Memorial Day to many more people. Miss ya bud.

Robert: You were one of the best neighbors I had while living in Granada Hills. You saved me from my "killer garage door" and always made me feel safe living across the street from you. It was nice sharing some good scotch and good conversation. God bless your family, I can't imagine their lives without you.

RIP my Brother, you always had a way to put a smile on my face. I will always remember drinking tea @ 2200 in Iraq

Was looking for you on a wed search and came across this page. Rest in peace RJ. Wish we were back in Munich.

RJ a day doesn't go by without me reflecting on how much I miss you my brother. Your a true friend, warrior, and patriot which you paid the greatest sacrifice someone could for our freedom. You will be missed but never forgotten.

Rob and I went to high school together when he lived in San Diego. I learned from a friend years ago that he was with LAPD. I had a career with the USMC as he did in the armor field. I also chose law enforcement as a new career. I contacted him a while back and we talked about past times and getting together. Now I won't have that opportunity. I will miss him. Farewell my friend. Heavens gates are surely being guarded well now that you are there and without a doubt dug in well. I will see you again someday amigo. Save a spot in the foxhole for me. I've got your back.

R.I.P Police Officer III+I & USMC Sergeant Major Robert James Cottle's. I've Read the papers. May your soul Rest in piece.. I'll be Joining the LAPD soon am gonna make your voice be heard. you're my hero

Already after reading so many, I have come to known R.J as though we had met in person. And even if we haven't, I know he was very loved, just what is read from his family and friends proves. I am a daughter of a military family myself, and possibly some day, I might serve also. But as of right now, all I can say is he is serving not our country, but the Lord. I know he will be dearly missed, but it won't be for long, because who knows? Soon maybe we will see him again in person. Maybe I will meet him too. I look forward to it.

Semper Fidelis, R.J. Rest in Peace.

~Meredith

Today marks three years since you were taken from us. My wife and son were in DC on a high school field trip last week and visited RJ at Arlington. They sent me a picture of RJ's stone and it was decorated with pictures and memento's. RJ touched alot of people in 45 years and they are not forgetting what he meant to them. Condolences to his family on this solemn and painful anniversary. RJ you are missed my friend.
Semper Fi !

Jack Winther, MSgt ret