Chris!our son who has left us so unexpectedly and left an enormous hole in all of our hearts. You were my first born, so small, so perfect, such tiny fingers and toes that amazed me. Such a miracle. We had such great memories of you growing up, and some really funny things you would pull when you got older, things that made us laugh. You loved to fish along the Erie Canal, growing up and living along that waterway all of your first 17 years. You grew to love the out of doors and appreciate nature at its best and worst. I know how you loved the thunderstorms here in New York as after moving to California you found it to be less of an occurrence there. There are so many funny things you did and said I can't even remember them all but as our family sits together we will be remembering them again and again and laughing as you would want us to. I can still hear your voice, and it will NEVER leave my mind, your imitation of me when I would react to your dad's driving and let out a shrieking "DEARRRR" I will always think of that and laugh. What can I say, except after all these years of your struggles you had FINALLY found yourself, finally had true happiness, finally figured out why you were here on earth. You got your children, and even though they might not have been biologically yours, they were as far as you were concerned, YOURS to care for and love like your own. You and Sharon were so very happy together, truly a perfect match and had so much to look forward to. We were so proud of you, your accomplishments, your going back to school to get that degree you had never been able to do before and most of all setting a great example for your twin step daughters. Dad and I were so proud of you, all you had accomplished. We didn't worry about you anymore, you had made it. You had grown into that man all parents wish for their kids. The many birthday cards you have sent over the years, it was so obvious you had taken so much time to pick them out, they had said so much, and always and most importantly the most beautiful comments you wrote on the bottom of how much we meant to you and how much dad had made such an impression on you and given you so much as you grew up. I will NEVER loose those cards, they will always be ours to keep, we will cherish them FOREVER. My hope is I will see you again, and I know you are making everyone laugh where you are now. As I stand here in California looking at the beautiful mountains behind us here, we know you are here also with us and always will be, deep in our hearts.
To all of those of you who have written to this website, his dad and I can't tell you enough how very much your messages have helped us through this most difficult time in our lives. Friends, family, strangers alike. Thanks to so many for all your love and prayers.
Chris's mom and dad

Walter and I grew up together in Somis, California and went through grade school together. He was kind, intelligent, and fun as were the rest of his family. On many days we explored the hills and canyons, rode bikes, and I specifically remember, all of us, sleeping on the living room floor listening to Christmas music...Johnny Mathis. Twenty years ago Walter and I happened upon each other while I was passing through Moorpark and I learned he was an air traffic controller. I couldn't imagine a more responsible person to be in that position. Certainly not a more sincere and dedicated person. He was among the best of human beings. Not only will his family miss him, but the world in general.

Manual is my very dear friend. I always had so much fun with Manual, at work we would laugh and dance all day long. No matter what I will always remember his big smile and positive outlook on life and I will miss him always. My condolences to his family. He was a very special person and loved by many.

My condolences to the Grace Family. Mr Grace was my PE teacher back in 1990, he was a great teacher. He will be missed. R.I.P Mr. Grace, you have made a difference in my life!

Our condolences to the Vyas family. May the Lord be with you, especially during this difficult time.

Kim,
Although I did not know Dean well I did see his work in Ventura. After getting to know you, I realized that anyone who spent time with you and Dean was a better person for it. Our deepest regards go to you and your family. If there is anything we can do please let me know.

With great respect,
Sam Maxson
MegaSound Studios

Beverly,
You have always been a kind and loving support to me. I hope in some small way I was the same for you. You were always a role model for our Diva Group -polished, confident, pretty, vibrant.....yes, we were all Beverly wannabe's.....We were always so glad when something funny happened because your laugh was fabulous and everyone would get caught up in your laughter and it would get even funnier.
We didn't have enough time together and for that I will be forever saddened.
I will keep my spirit up by thinking about you and all you have accomplished and were about to accomplish.
I will listen to music differently from now on...wondering how you might interpret the musical piece and why.
You are in my heart.
I will miss you ....the Divas will miss you........
I hope that I can model all your special qualities and become the best that I can be.
The Divas will support one another ....that is part of your legacy.
Rest and be peaceful.
Melanie

Mr. Long was a wonderful teacher! He always had the student's best interest in mind; though we may not have known it at the time. I had Mr. Long for 4 of my classes that I can remember. He was a very passionate teacher but very relatable with all of his students. I just saw him a couple of months ago and he would never just walk by you he would always sit down and talk with you to catch up make sure you were doing good. He was a wonderful man of God and will be missed.

My heartfelt condolences go out to his family and friends. We met briefly on the 113 Metrolink and we saw each other often during our commute. We sometimes both got off at the Camarillo station at the same time. My commuting stopped last December. I would have liked to have known him better. I bet he knew how to put together some fantastic meals for his family and friends.

Dear Sweet Steph,

Oh sweetheart we are so so sorry, we know Jacob was the
love of your life. Our heart breaks for our sweet
beautiful cousin and your Mom and Dad and Jacobs family.
We just meet Jacob once but what a special young man!
Remember he drove Art to come and pick me up from work.
He waited patiently for me, didnt know me or Art but he
did it willingly. I know this was how he handled his life
with patience, volunteering and being kind hearted. Oh Steph I just wish you didnt have to feel such horrific pain. Just know we love you and were praying for you. We wish we could stop your heart ache.

Love your cousins,

Art, Lorraine & Arthur-Steven